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5 Tips For Recovery From Post Concussion Syndrome

Recovery From Post Concussion Syndrome

I am aware of all the fuss over concussions in sports and the high level of precaution now being taken since my son is intensely involved in competitive soccer, but I never truly understood all this until I suffered a concussion myself!

About 7 months ago we experienced a “moderate” car accident. It was more than a minor fender bender as both cars involved were totaled and I experienced injuries that required months of therapy to recover from. However I am grateful that it wasn’t serious…no one needed to go to the hospital, there were no broken bones or life threatening injuries, and my husband and son’s injuries were much less complicated than mine.

With physical therapy I successfully conquered the daily neck and back pain, and the headaches I was experiencing significantly decreased. However, the visual complications from the concussion were much more challenging to deal with and significantly hindered my ability to function throughout the day.

I knew something was very wrong when one day, I suddenly screamed at my husband to stop the car because I felt as if the vibration from the motor, the noise from everyone talking, and the blinding light from the sun were going to make my head explode and I felt so out of control I could have punched something.

As a pediatric Occupational Therapist I specialize in helping families and children deal with sensory overwhelm but I had never experienced anything even close to this myself. I sat on the curb of the sidewalk, feet away from the car, with my eyes closed and my hands over my ears to block out the noise of passing cars and just focused on my breathing for what seemed like an eternity. My husband stood over me, worried, not sure what was wrong as I could not even formulate the words to say, “I am NOT ok, but just leave me alone and I will be fine in a few minutes.”

I was already having problems using my cell phone. I never realized how frequently the visual information on one’s phone moves, scrolls, flashes, etc. multiple times every second as you switch between apps, open a web site, check dates on the calendar…pretty much do ANYTHING on a phone. I would get nauseous and dizzy after just a few seconds using my phone and learned to get really good at blinking during visual transitions and looking at my phone at an angle to decrease the intensity.

Then one day I had to pick up my son from a late soccer practice and drive home in the dark. I didn’t know this was a problem as it was the first time since the accident I had driven at night. It was so scary! I told my 12 year old he needed to put his phone away and quickly learn how to drive from the back seat! His job was to diligently watch in front of us and the sides for anything that could be dangerous or any animal that might appear out of no where as I kept my eyes fixated on the tires of the car in front of me.

The lights from the street and cars felt like lasers cutting my eyes and physically hurt so intensely I wanted to cry. When I looked at the black sky in front of me I saw lighting bolts of light that were not there and every light looked like 50 bubbles all squished together and deformed. When stopped at an intersection the cars passing in front of me had trails of light, like you see in the cool time lapse pictures…but this was not so cool!

As difficult and uncomfortable this experience has been, I have learned some interesting things about concussion and how to help heal your brain.

If you are struggling from visual disturbances, double vision, convergence insufficiency, and light sensitivity after a concussion here are some tips to help your brain heal:

1. Don’t Hide in The Dark, But Learn Just How Much Light You Can Tolorate Before It’s TOO MUCH.

Exposure to just enough, but not too much light helps your brain to slowly desensitize and increase tolerance. It may take some time to figure out how much is too much, but once you do, try to increase how much you can handle as tolerate. It’s ok to rest and turn off the lights if you have had a difficult day, but if it’s a good (or even so-so day) don’t be afraid of the light.

2. Were hats with rims as much as you need to decrease light from above and in your peripheral vision.

Fishing hats might not be pretty, but are very functional to use while driving. This helps your eyes receive enough light to work on desensitizing but decreases the bright of focal lights in your peripheral vision which sends your central nervous system into fight or flight mode.

3. Tinted glasses can change how your brain perceives light.

visual accommodations for post concussion

Here is a goofy selfie of myself as I write this post, using my special blue glasses to decrease the intensity of the visual input from the computer and a hat to block out the nauseating movement from my sons video games on the nearby TV. A specialized Behavioral or Developmental Optometrist can help determine if using colored glasses can decrease your symptoms while your brain heals and relearns how to calibrate visual input and movement. For me, blue glasses were the answer and have worked to calm down my central nervous system to decrease the sensory overwhelm and allow me to function throughout the day as best as possible. When I put on my glasses, I instantly feel a sigh of relief and wave of calm throughout my body. It’s pretty cool. Different colors have different effects based on what your brain needs, so blue may not be for everyone, but a professional trained in concussion recovery can help you find the right color and shade.

4. Its OK to Give Yourself a Break!

When you feel overwhelmed and your eyes and brain are tired…REST. If you keep pushing yourself you stress your visual system to the point that it shuts down and “gets sick.” Its important to know your visual limits and to stop when you have had too much. The more you can do this consistently the faster your brain and visual system will heal. Educate your friends and family that there will be times when you just have to say enough is enough and will need their help. If you keep pushing yourself past what your brain can handle, your nervous system stays in a state of fight or flight and can not relearn how to process your visual world.

5. Your Brain Needs to Calibrate With Your Body Movements.

Frequently after a concussion, your eyes and body get out of sync and your brain struggles to judge depth and position in space. This can challenge your balance and motor coordination. An easy way to work on this is to “look and touch.” This may seem too simple, but when you just look at an object, your brain may not be accurately perceiving how far away it is from your body. When you look at it, and then touch it, the feedback from your arm and hand proprioceptive feedback) teaches your brain and eyes exactly where that object is in space…and where your body is in space in comparison. The more you do this the more confidence your visual system has with its ability to judge distance and space. Think of it like checking your math work against the answer key to know if your on track or not.

If you are suffering from Post Concussion Syndrome, be patient and know that with time and the correct therapeutic intervention you can get better!

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How EFT Changed My Life

Have you ever heard of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) or also referred to as “Tapping”?  Honestly, I came across it by accident but when I did, I had a “light bulb” moment and literally said out loud, “This is what I’ve been told doesn’t exist!”  

I was struggling with the onset of a debilitating movement disorder and saw several neurologists who kept telling me they didn’t know what was wrong, it wasn’t in my head…but maybe just how my body was reacting to stress.  No one was able to tell me how to get better or even what type of doctor I should follow up with.

I was told I just had to learn to manage stress and figure out how to live with the debilitating symptoms.

I understand managing stress is important, but how was I supposed to survive when washing my hair or walking from the car into a store was the “stress” that triggered my symptoms.

So what was wrong with me?  At least once every 2 weeks I would have an episode of tremors in my lower back that caused Parkinson type movements and made it difficult to walk and function.  The only way they improved was to lay in bed for a day or two and not contract my muscles. The more I moved, the worse they got.

I had my own theories of what was happening but to the neurologists whom I saw, tests did not show anything objective so I kept being told the movements were caused by “stress” and possibly something linked to my subconscious.  

This was not acceptable to me and I refused to accept that I had to live with a disabling condition that had no cause or treatment.

I searched and search for help with many dead ends. The first thing that actually started to helped me was acupuncture.  This opened up a whole new way of thinking for me that was “outside the box.”.

I felt supported and relieved that when I told the acupuncturist the symptoms I was having she instantly knew what was wrong from a Chinese medicine perspective and had a name to my condition!  After a year of acupuncture I was at least stable enough to be able to work full time and at times actually function outside of work.

Prior to the treatment I would barely make it through a day at work and then needed to rest and sleep 12 hrs. in order to be able to function the next day.  I was unable to be a wife, have any type of social or family life, and my quality of life was non existent. So even though I was slightly more stable, I continued to look for more treatments.

So how does EFT fit it?  

I was trying herbal supplements, continuing acupuncture, and Chinese remedies but this was so costly and over our budget.  Aside from my health issues, we were dealing with bankruptcy after a difficult adoption process for our son, my husband’s income had been decreased significantly, and I had just changed jobs.  Talk about stress!

So at my new job, I was invited to a training that involved tapping on a child’s body to stimulate normalized motor movements.  My boss asked if I was familiar with this and I said, “yes” thinking I had heard of it before but then realized I truly had no idea.  I frantically searched the internet for “tapping on children” so I could be more prepared, but what I found was information about EFT tapping.  I remember reading about it and thinking, “This is exactly what I need!”

Why didn’t any of the medical professionals whom I saw know about this and why didn’t they suggest that I look into someone trained in EFT to address my condition. Why didn’t more people know about this?

After that moment, I downloaded and listened to hundreds of interviews and training on how to do EFT.  I used it frequently for myself over the next 2 years and my life changed! I had a tool to use to facilitate healing of my body as well as emotional turmoil and limiting beliefs that kept me from being who I am today.  

You are probably now asking, “What exactly is EFT?”  I love how Nick Ortner introduces the technique in the following video:  

It truly is a life changing tool for everyone, not just people struggling with health challenges, like me.  

EFT can be applied to just about everything…emotions, relationships, finances, limiting beliefs, parenting, and much more.

I use it frequently as an Occupational Therapist when a child is traumatized from sensory sensitivity, frustrated with handwriting, or scared to go to the doctor/dentist/school, etc.  As a parent, I use it with my child when he is overreacting to small situations, tantrums, and anxious about change.

I would love for you to learn how you can use it to not only to make your life less stressful and successful, but also to share this knowledge with others you know who are struggling in life.

The 2019 World Tapping Summit is beginning on Feb. 24th and you can listen to it for free.  There are 10 days full of invaluable information that will change your life.

I look forward to your comments on how EFT helped you as well as your experience and thoughts after listening to the summit.  It is so powerful and yet so simple. 

Check back for more blogs as the summit is in process!

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Are You Afraid to Be Yourself?

I’m BACK! Me, myself, and I! When I first began looking into affiliate marketing, I began facing an identity crisis. 

I was motivated by the idea of being able to have an internet lifestyle and passive income, but I wasn’t looking to quite my day job. 

I was, and still am, happy in my career.  However, I just had too much on my plate and I wanted to be able to focus more time on family and personal health. 

However I had many fears about beginning internet marketing. What would my professional colleges think?  How would I handle judgment and rejection from complete strangers? What if I was not successful and lost more money that I could make?

However out of all those fears, the greatest was putting myself out there in the public eye.

I wasn’t ready to be my own “brand.” I thought I could sit behind the computer, faceless, and run the scenes from the back ground with my husband as the front man.

Having an internet business was never something I was passionate about but I knew it was the right step to take and for years something just kept hinting towards the idea.

The internet is not my passion however it is something I have confidence I can learn and be successful in utilizing. My initial goal when joining SFM (Six Figure Mentors),was to learn how to generate additional income to supplement my career work as I felt I was reaching my limit of what I could handle trading my time for money.

I often felt I just couldn’t fit all of life’s work challenges, family commitments and self care into a 24 hour period.  

Since then, I have learned so much!  The past few months as I have gone through hundreds of hours of SFM’s internet marketing and related books and info, I find myself realizing something invaluable.

I haven’t been just learning how to be successful with an internet business, but I have grown in finding my own identity, reflecting on what I can offer to the world outside of my career, and feeling more comfortable being me!

I am ready to revamp my business with my name and picture proudly representing my thoughts, videos, and opinions. I have a clearer idea of who I am as a“brand” and I am comfortable standing at the front with my husband’s support behind me.

This transformation is priceless and it would not have happened without the amazing support of the  SFM community.

I am grateful to be a part of such an amazing and motivating group of people who share in my values and integrity. What a huge personal growth experience I have been living these past few months.

I am ready to say “Here I am world!” and offer my heart and soul to my passion of helping others utilizing a new medium…the internet.

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Have You Lost Your Positive Vibe? Find out how I got mine back!

I truly feel I am finally riding the wave after a very difficult year. Have you ever felt everything seems great on the outside, but something is just not the same inside? 

It’s hard to explain to people that I just don’t feel like my happy, optimist self.  They see that on the outside our family has been blessed with a wonderful new house, my work has been going well, and we have not had to face any significant hardships. However on the inside the process of buying our new house and moving just broke me. It was not what I expected or was ready for.

On the inside I felt prickly and unsettled, just doing my best to keep my head above water. I defiantly had lost my positive vibe.

Recently I have been exploring a new idea, internet marketing. It is a way to create passive income and work any time, from anywhere.  The seed for this idea was planted years ago while I was living in Guatemala during the process of adopting our son. 

We encountered a family who had adopted multiple children and traveled the world with them throughout each adoption process.  When we asked how they could do this, the dad explained he was an internet marketer and worked from his laptop. All he needed was an internet connection.  At the time it seemed like an amazing opportunity but I didn’t really understand what internet marketing was or how you could possibly make that much income without being some type of computer expert. 

Just recently, a friend became a consultant for a company selling health products and gave my husband and I the speech about if we were to become consultants there would be no ceiling of how much we could earn, we could build financial security, and earn while others under us sell products (passive income). 

However, becoming a consultant and doing face to face selling was not something either of us were interested in…but it got me thinking. 

I love my career and what I do but having more flexibility, financial stability, and working less hours defiantly appealed to me.

So, I began searching for ways to make money online thinking of the family in Guatemala and wondering if it was really true.  I accidentally came across a very well done Facebook add that portrayed living a laptop lifestyle, traveling while earning income, financial security, and more. 

Since I had already been researching how to earn money online, watching the add was right in line with what I was looking for. 

I needed to know more about what they were talking about!

What I didn’t know was that going through the initial training and orientation was just what I needed to get my self out of the water I had been drowning in.

The education was inspirational and reminded me that with perseverance I will succeed, with a positive mindset I will change my life.

These mentors helped me to visualize what I really want my life to look like and that there are means to make that happen now, vs 10 years from now through saving and hard work in our careers. I am inspired by the idea of being able to work in my profession as a hobby in order to help others vs needing to work to pay the bills. I feel like I got my positive vibe back and am riding the wave.  It feels so good and I want to share my journey with others who are feeling like I was!

If you are in a rut, feel trapped in your job, want to be able to live by your own rules, or have lost your positive vibe…I encourage you to check out the link above.

The learning and inspirational growth I have experienced is exactly what I needed to put a smile back on my face and hope in my heart.